How to Get Your Children to Behave in Public

While shopping during the week, it isn’t unusual for me to see a mom with her young children, trying desperately to keep them under control.  The kids are fussing, whining and standing up in the cart.  Poor mom is trying to bargain with them…”If you sit down, Mommy will give you a cookie”. The cookie [...]

Embrace the Season You're In

    Life seems to come in seasons. One season begins, another one ends.  Too often, I long for the season that I’m not currently in.  I want to be more productive, I want to be thinner and I want to have more freedom.  Yet, the season I’m in is good, very good.  When I [...]

8 Great Ways to Bond with Your Teenager

Having three (almost four!) teenagers in the home, I feel like I am finally beginning to understand a bit more about how young people think. Dreadful stories about teenagers are plentiful, I have a few tales myself.  I certainly don’t claim to have all of the answers to raising teens.  There are times I can [...]

Take Your Kid to Breakfast….THEN Ground Them

     I can’t remember what the offense was…but it was a big one.    All I remember is the particular child involved and the fact that despite our best efforts, my husband and I weren’t getting through to this child’s heart enough to inspire change.   It had gone on and on, whatever the infraction was.  We [...]

Parenting Series: The Middle School Years

  As I find myself with two children in middle school this year, my anxiety level is a bit higher.   Over the summer, planned conversations took place with each of my four older children about various topics.  They are in a different place of understanding and maturity, and their questions are different than they were [...]

Mandatory Fun Time

Playtime…sounds like fun, but for some reason there are times that my children seem to forget how to play. I know when I was a kid, we played outside all the time.   We had our bikes, roller skates, pogo sticks, swing sets and unicycles. When Mom said it was time to go out to play, that meant ‘do [...]

10 Healthy Reactions for When Your Teenagers Mess Up- Big Time!

We all have those moments as parents… the ones that we pray for amnesia so that we can forget the pain and embarrassment from something our children did or do. I’ve been a parent for 24 years now and I’ve come a long way.  I’ve learned much about myself and been brave enough to allow [...]

How to Build Character with Silly Bandz and other Useless Toys

    Surely I’m not the only mother in this country being plagued by the fascination of Silly Bandz from their children!   I read a bit of the story behind Silly Bandz on Yahoo Finance, it’s not surprising that the creator of these incredible-profit-margin-pieces-of-rubber, worth less than a fraction of a cent, is making a [...]

Parenting Series: Birth-24 months, Part 2

As I complete my current thoughts on birth-24  months, keep in mind that every baby and every family in unique.  You, and you alone, know deep down in your heart what is best for your baby.   Listen to that voice, you can trust it.  For far too long, I took the advice of doctors, books [...]

Parenting Series: Birth – 24 months

    Bringing a new baby into your family is one of God’s greatest blessings.  It is a time of tremendous change and adjustment for the blessed couple, that’s why my discussion today will include the parents as much as the baby.  This time of redefinition of yourselves personally, as a couple and as new parents requires [...]