Perfectionism has no place in my life today…as a ‘recovering perfectionist‘, I see more clearly than ever how much relational damage I’ve done over the years by my need to be perfect. I have been reminded of my tendency towards perfection during Christmas, as I am tempted to fantasize about that Norman Rockwell holiday that [...]
How to Deal with Toxic People During the Holidays
The Year of the Hand-Crafted Gift

Gorgeous, unique and practical….this is the year for the hand-crafted gift! Gorgeous hand-made soap from Leanne’s…naturally. I don’t need to remind anyone that money is tight for just about everyone this year. Growing numbers are out of work with little prospect for employment at this time. Christmas will be very lean for many and you [...]
The Modern "Summer Kitchen"
Today’s “Summer Kitchen” – what should it look like? This question has been on my mind a lot lately. As we design a new outbuilding for our property, a new, modern “Summer Kitchen” will be part of the plan. As I’ve searched the internet for ideas, I’m finding the terms “Summer Kitchen” and “Outdoor Kitchen” [...]
How to Make a Wonderfully Simple Turkey
For many years, the thought of cooking a turkey was terrifying to me…but not anymore. Year after year, I would watch TV shows and read websites, looking for the perfect way to make a turkey. Yet, most years, my turkey turned out somewhere between mediocre to burnt. This Thanksgiving, and for the last 10 years [...]
Choosing Gratitude: Guest Post
This is a guest post by a very good friend and faithful reader. I love the way she is choosing to be grateful in her circumstances this holiday season…. Every Tuesday morning, I head to one of my favorite places to hang out…my girl’s school. As a helper in my youngest daughter’s class, I always head [...]











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